Dear Norman, we have known you, Jan and the family for 37 years. Our Mom and Dad were very fond of you guys and that is the same for us. You and Jan always stayed in touch and there was a special bond that is rare. We have great memories and Jan will always have a special place in our hearts. We know what you all went through and you can all be proud of yourselves. This was an impossible job. Never regret or feel guilty as there is nothing else anyone could have done to change the outcome. You did your best. Jan is in a better place and would want all of you to be strong and happy. Out of respect for Jan, our Mother Kitty and all the people who have or had ALS we must take advantage and make the best out of every moment we have in this life. We owe it to them. Lot's of strength and we are thinking of you guys. Love to you all. Marcel & VG Family